The dept of revenue basically took her affidavit and never asked for proof of anything. Im a high school graduate and make $70k year. What one parent pays the other pays half to equal that payment. The mother of my step kids (who are now 17 and 19) is a lazy, selfish, self admitted pot smoker, drinker and pill popper. We get my step daughter every weeks 3 days a week every week and her mother has her 4 days. I want women to enjoy their financial freedom, control the choices they make in their lives, to be able to make choices not based on desperation, and have a great life. All she needs to do is provide information about the father to them, and direct contact with the father is unnecessary. she had a team of free state supported lawyers counclers I had what i could afford . What I do have an issue with is the state telling me I also owe $23,000.00 for interest which has accrued since then, which I find to be TOTAL b.s.!!! The Support order was for $1,000 which was clearly a mistake so i contacted Child Support Enforcement which told me they did not calculate any of the 35% of the time sharing i had with my son during the year because the dates I provided i had him during the year did not exactly match the dates she provided (was told if one date does not match they calculate it as 100% time to her) I was outraged but fought trying to correct this for some time. The system sucks! Men, the only way to win is not to play. Because many judges are locked into the the higher the child support is the better it is for the child mentalitywhich completely undermines the shared parenting approachthey are reluctant to deviate downward in child support award. Now mind you everytime I got paid I asked her if she need money for anything. My turn. Some parents dont want to be and others arent fit to be parents even though they want to be. Again, there are exceptions, however, when parental rights are determined by the government, we do not live in a democracymore like the dark ages. Is anyone else in this situation? The whole system is Antiquated in a joke. No court is going to take those kind of accusations at face value with no evidence, especially in a child custody case. The age of the children. Your case is very rare though because most MEN, not boys, wish they could get more time with their kids even if they still paid the same amount of money but you offered 50/50 with no payments. You cant control him anyways. As stated by someone above I am a money supplier and a babysitter. I just want my baby back. Can I Sue Over Being Sent To Court To Establish Paternity? Im buying a house in cash in 8 years so it matters none. I hope for someone to help us but I feel we are only two of thousands stuck in a system thats easily manipulated! Be a man ladies raise kids like men dowithout any handouts. Interestingly, the wife in this case cant be booked because adultery law doesnt recognize adultery by a married woman in India. I got it. Such BS. He showed up for both brain surgeries and one visit after. He spends just as much time with their son as the boys mother does if not more so during the summer months and when he WAS working he never missed a payment, often times paying a little extra in addition to any of the day to day things his son might need (new shoes, clothing, food, school supplies, etc). Some fathers do not even know they have a child until they receive a notice for past due child support. Plenty of times it is the mother who is proven psychologically unstable and yet the courts, in a bias, will give her much more in terms of rights and leniency. We equally fund the account but neither of us subsidizes the others life. In many states the men cannot. It is the responsibility of BOTH parents to make sure theyre kids are taken care of!!!!! All this because the child doesnt know any better and is trusting and dependent on her. Recently, firms that specialize in men's divorce have popped up all over. Im currently 13 and although Im young, I know what goes on with child support agreements. Deadbeat dads are not the norm at all nowadays. It really all has to do with corruption in the courts and who the judge happens to be. Jail is preferred over poverty. As soon as the state locates his employer, he skips to another job. Something has to be done Dprks007@gmail.com. Why should that man, who doesnt have a large income, be forced into a situation where he has to struggle just to make ends meet when the woman is perfectly capable of working and has a job herself? I emailed her, and yelled at her. If she is collecting support on you and your sister while your father has custody, that is fraudulent. On the eve before Thanksgiving, I attempted to put the turkey into the oven and made plans for a trip out of town, to find that he hadnt. Thats whats wrong with parenting,there is always that one who feels they should have ALL THE SAY SO.. EVERYONE has to learn how to Co -parent. Actually we dont know cause its VERY VERY VERY RARE A WOMAN GET PUT ON THAT SHIT SO DONT EVEN TRY TO COMPARE THEM MA. Joe , guess you end up paying anyway ! AMEN to your story. These systems have FAILED not only HER, but her brother and myself!! If it is 50/50 or split depending on your state law and her income you MIGHT havre to help her otherwise. I, like so many of you, am a single mother of one 10 year old. The system is not kind towards men. I have 3 kids. Last September, the Supreme Court of Canada confirmed a parent's ability to make a retroactive claim for child support. Anyone that thinks Child Support is fare needs to get a grip on reality! That was seven years ago. The State of Indiana, St. Joseph County, specifically, awarded a court order of $2, 346.00, this at the initial child support hearing, 219.00 every two weeks. This is a new time and the child support laws seriously need to be changed. Fathers Against unfair Child support and jail time over support. Have fun with your weapon, i mean child. Child support needs to be based on a case basis. 5) If you dont want to pay child support. Welcome to the Fathers for Equal Rights Child Support Information Center. Why should dads (or any parent) have to show they will be better than any other parent (real or imagined!). Being that Ive paid half of my check for 19 years, and still cant meet the minimum paymentall of my debt is all accrued interest. And I can see when the child support check is cashed off my bank statements Each month its cashed a weekend I have my girls And the next week when I get my girls back They didnt do anything but sit on their tablets and didnt get snacks like they do with me (fruits and vegetables) but their mother does have a brand new car, The problem is no one wants to advocate for the fathers. CT allows parents to TPR for no ongoing relationships But the truth is, she is a photographer who works under the table. Can not see his child because a court order was not put in place when his son was first born. Its what is best. Which she occasionally changes without telling me. Im sorry, but I dont believe your story for a second. This is a trap question. 51% deadbeat MOM, by current Wa. Talk to your father, get nosey, ask questions. I have been paying child support for 18 years, i received papers showing case closed and even got a refund check back for overpaying, this is North carolina that i am talking about, so 2 weeks ago i got a letter stating that my child support was reopened and now i am 2 months in arrears and now put in for garnishment. Just reading ur rant against 50/50 custody for anyone states why urs would never work because of you yourself. Sounds fair to me but in the one sided battle it aint gonna happen! Not having enough to make ends meet. This includes food, health insurance, transportation to school, and one third of the utilities. It doesnt matter who cheated. And yes child support collected does for back in part to repay the state for welfare. If you need or want help collecting child support, you may apply for assistance online from the Child Support Division of the Texas Attorney General's Office (OAG), or call the toll-free number (800) 252-8014. I have paid over 80000 in child support in 14 years and about 5000 for depositions and another 20000 for lawyers. Then be involved in their care-taking/homework/life and work you ass off to make a good relationship with your ex wife who is probably fed up with your entitled opinions about owning the kids when she does all the work of raising them. Child support needs to be reformed where almost like food stamps where the money can be used for certain things like food, clothes and other essential things. I have no problem paying but it seems Im stuck paying for all of it and her getting a free ride. the non sense of putting one parent into poverty is ridiculous and its not just. I dont thin there is any easy way to solve this problem. Making physical contact with another person in a harmful or offensive manner is a crime. To add further insult to injury. No! She has moved several places, my husband would try and follow to care for her and his kids. I also believe your children should never be looked at as a financial burden. This system is so bad! But thats ok, I will continue paying my ex so she can get that new SUV. False allegations of abuse. In my case, I am owed 30k plus in child support from the last 10 plus years. I know I am ranting, but the system is so bias it is ridiculous. Go do well and quit complaining about unequal laws. As Graham points out, 29 percent of families in the system live below the federal poverty line. SMH at all the ridiculous complaining on these boards whether the CP (usually Mom) is working or not. Ex. The current system does help in some instances but in this one i believe it created greed. It automatically goes straight to my exs account. I could literally go on all day. What you can do is move out of your grandmothers basement and try to provide a stable environment for your child instead of depending on them to raise your child. Besides these 3 children, I have 7 other children from prior relationships. There is too much money to be made in respect to how it is. HERE IN SC, THEY GO ACCORDING TO YOUR INCOME AND HE MAKES MORE THAN ENOUGH, AND YET MAYBE MAKE A PAYMENT EVERY 2-3MONTHS. the child support system is flawed in so many ways. From reading your comments it sounds like you are having a problem separating your feelings about your ex from your feelings about him as a father. I got an apology, but still. I managed to grow up and become successful and am now paying 6 more years of very punitive CA child support to a woman in PA who stole a sperm from me basically when I was young and stupid socially (despite book smarts) now I have a pretty daughter Ive never seen on the other side of the country. Child Support is a money-making scam used by the state who are financially motivated to enforce child support. Your right, support and involvement are dealt with separately. But today they are But then again. With this being said it shouldnt matter if you remarried and had more children or lost your job the child you are paying for still needs support. Yes we have dead beat dads but we also have dads that try. The other reason why I didnt take her to court because the judicial system is all in favor of the woman and not the kids or fathet. Child support laws are designed to keep the noncustodial father/mother in a financial decay, as if they are the ones who are responsible for the child and divorce. It is a two-way street, 100%. Your children with be proud of you. Required fields are marked *. THE MONEY CAN BURN, it wont save anybody. Her mom doesnt pay me any child support, never has. I have full custody . And the article. Don't give up. Unfortunately, some parents dont take initiative to support their child but I do see that the system is flawed, I. Ive signed a release for my son to obtain a passport so that he may go on a cruise with his mom and her boyfriend because it was the right thing to do yet I am restricted from leaving the country or having a passport because..? If we are trying to be fair and equal. There are questions when you go from making $26 an hour to making $10 an hour, many dads do that intentionally to lessen the amount of child support the ex gets, usually out of bitterness. Keep going.". Its a never ending bullshit cycle judges in SC dont have to go through dss. I take care of my daughter. But it costed me a lot of money to get proof and to go to court those 5 times, and in the end Im still paying. I havent seen my daughter in over 3 years due to the fact my ex found out I was getting married and was having a child with my wife. Just cause I make more I have to pay 70% of summer camp, after school care, and now she wants tutoring cause our child supposedly has adhd. Stay-at-home fathers are not always cast in the best light. Not all men are deadbeats and they also charge interest on past support. Whenever Dad makes more $, he gets taken back to court to pay more $. For his child support he is a child care worker, again he requested parent time with his 1st born and the court (a woman judge) told him he should be paying more child support (He is already paying more then the required formula states should be paid) so the judge told him to get a real job ( a woman would have never been told that!). Further examples. She wants for nothing, and is more fortunate than most kids who are growing up in 2-parent homes. This isnt just my child its hers as well and I pay all this money for a kid I no longer see! Many fathers sincerely want to do right by their children, but simply dont have the means to do so. This debt of mineis all interest on a balance that shouldve never existed in the first place. This is not to say that women are better parents. Federal law says they cant take your passport or licenses away. Eventually she gave him the divorce and married the man she was cheating with. Financially it was a hardship, I could not pay my bills, moved back in with my mother, filed bankruptcy etc, while still attempting to correct this child support issue. . Collect tons of child support. and low and behold im being taken to court to ALTER the child support 2 weeks later.. they want 1200$ a month for 3 kids i never get to see because of her lies and brain washing..I even have to PAY for the visitation i had 3 visits in a year. We both have homes with bedrooms for the kids and clothes etc. N they gave us a week to make a payment an have it show up in there system when it takes a couple weeks to process it which sounds like they dont care if she makes the payment or not. Yeah me too they have taken my children and all my money. Having children is. Nobody is entitled to the fruits of someone elses labor, Legally. CHILD SUPPORT MAY DETER UNWED FATHERS: There were a number of stories on this study. Why is child support based on gross pay? Under child support law, child maintenance must be paid to the parent with the main day-to-day care of the child. My current husbands ex wife takes almost $1000 a month from us for 2 kids. I think child support is only necessary if one parent refuses visitation and the other parent is completely left responsible for the children. But because her mother is a low life Im charge 1375 a month cant even afford my expenses and will get in trouble with the state. Im sorry that your son is thrown into a multiple household situation that is only hurting him. I havent found any groups to help with child supportall for women. Love it , I basically am paying for my ex to buy cigarettes and not send my daughter to school. He has never attended day care. The judge made me prove how much money I made. Ill tell you! My hat goes off to you sir!! General Attorney office is a joke, and yes the system is full broken. Ill take sole custody and all the financial responsibility in a heartbeat. In practice, the judge tends to . Quite honestly, if the custody was more level, my daughter would actually see the child support money forked over to go spend foolishly. (IPC 497). Someone in charge needs to change the system. Ladies, sometimes it is with walking away and getting away. But goes to Vegas and Cancun all the time.. and when he takes the kid , he makes him babysit so he and his new wife can go and get drunk on a bar and party. But I had to move out of my home. What if dad is sick or injured and can no longer work for say 2 years . "Judges, the bench, the bar, even lawyers, they think it's not in a guy's DNA to be a stay-at-home parent . Why keep a parent paying when no relationship exist . Badly. The second, a young man who claimed his ex was supposed to be sending papers for him to sign over his rights so her husband could adopt and she has not followed through in a timely manor, $300 perge 30 days. That will eat up $750 a month, by itself. If a woman can legally give her kid up for adoption and be absolved of any financial obligations to that kid why shouldnt a man be allowed to do the same?He cant because she can trick a guy into getting her pregnant, get cash and food stamps from the State AND get the state to harass, extort, threaten, and terrorize some guy into paying her under threat of garnishment, loss of rights, imprisonment etc.. No wonder your ex got himself locked up. 3) It would help to listen to Tom Leykis on line. She doesnt get interest from arrearage, hell she doesnt even get child support. So we agreed on $400 a month to be paid to her for monies aiding in support of our child. I highly disagree with 50/50 custody. I wish my support was 219 every 2 weeks! From businesses to governments, from tv shows and commercials to major league sports. We have joint custody. The only thing that can again make the equation equal, is the ability of the man to decide if hes willing to be responsible financially and supportively for the child. I know how all of these fathers feel. You see, most opposing attorneys will run your credit score to asssess how juicy a target you are in order to get sued and your ability to pay, prior to compiling that 600 page compliant in court against you. When you get a subpoena to show up for court regarding child support, you get a are you so and so? Ive been on tough situations but never did I bother there dad because as a mother we always find a way to make money. I made these payments every month for 3 years while we were separated. Im not the type of women that says if you dont pay Im not letting you see the kids. The one whom owes Child Support pays Child Support with After-Tax Money. How typical!! And what if that same husband had this happen to him in a previous marriage? I am so thankful for our ability to not use our child as a weapon or greed. Two years later the welfare system made her produce a father because you can ONLY be. I had all 3 of my daughters since before they started school. it took them 3 weeks to even decide to allow me visitation..because of her plan and how she played the victim card..i dont have the money to sue for perjury. No parent would want to see their child hurt. While the non custodial parent (90% of the time men) have to pay. Ive had CSS employees tell me that its a horrible situation, and they feel badbut give me little advice. 2. Check it out! Unite and fight the system. So if they are at grams perhaps she is helping him. So dad now owes 2 years in back support and in a lot of cases the mother is making 2 to 3 times what the father did before he was injured . Judges dont get to know every case there are just to many and to them its only a job and they could care less if you are struggling due to an idoit you were once involved with,you are only a paycheck to judges and lawyers and they sure dont give a crap about the child. For the first few years, things were good. She never got a job and was on welfare, food stamps, and got a medical card. Just type in US Department of Justice 9 page memo March 14 2016 in the search. And remember this a few minutes of sexual gratification is not worth 18 years of monthly child support payments . Believe me, they are NOT the primary caregivers of the kids when they do have them. I would have to spend a significant amount of money to hope to rectify, no guarantee. Here's what happened: My child support went from $1,113.00 per month plus health insurance of $225.00 to $243.00 a month in child support and she paid the health insurance. I calmly told him why are you talking to me in a rude manner and he got pissed he told me I dont need to respect you or put up with this and hung up on me. Keep in mind that the deadbeat dads are a minority. So again, dont pass off your responsibility on tax paying citizens, thank you. Been through almost 4 years ago from assistive living in Vermont. It is not about bitterness The curry court system is one sided. We humans forget what we really need to survive food (learn how to cook you save money and its healthy) believe me there are many other important issue that need to be addressed at the courts not drama, waste of money and so called justice. What should we be doing about these situations? Instead the kids are living paychecks and bartering tools for the other parent. And wont be able to really have my own place because my child support is so high. When they arent, they want and/or need financial help raising their child(ren) because often they have stayed home to raise them, and that was the agreement/understanding during the marriage. They make noncustodial parents finance their childrens college education, but they dont make married parents pay for their childrens college educations?????! Parents are supposed to support each other and their children not have children just to collect support. Interesting conversation. Its a slippery slope, Im OK if I can keep my income up for next 6-10 years. The sad reality is I began to understand why some fathers would disappear from their childs life. But as long as Dad sees Kid that one day, all is well! Michelle Ferreri licensed in PA and NJ only - Philadelphia, PA. Dorothy Walsh Ripka licensed in OH, IL, MO, KY and TX only. The self-support reserve would allow enforcement sanctions to be focused on the true deadbeat parent while allowing deadbroke parents to receive job training and social service referrals to give them the opportunity to become self-supporting and better able to provide for themselves and their children while being shielded from administrative sanctions (such as drivers license suspensions) that can cost a parent their job. If a woman cannot support her children on her own or with her new spouse, then they need to live with the other parent. It was not my choice to be accused of false abuse Notice IM NOT COMPLAINING ABOUT MY CHILDREN whom I nursed and sang to as infants etcI loved being a mom and business woman and soldier. it makes ZERO sense. For this state I can say that they attempt to work with both parents. Always has worked, but when the state used to try and find him he moved. Then, the court treats YOUR child as though they are the property of the state as though YOUR child is just being loaned to you to take care of. Than i ask why was nothing ever produced that she was going to school, they said its not our job to do that. 3 talking about this. We should not feel criminalized because our spouses cheated on us, or villanized us, or whatever they did. I have 1.5 masters degrees in nursing now. child related expenses should be equally divided and same with medical and dental care. A more important point is that society doesnt generally put parents to some comparison group, test their traits and decide who gets to be parent in our society because its a fundamental human right. The Federal Parent Locator Service uses a national database to track down noncustodial parents to enforce payments. The core of the problem with modern child support laws is that there is too much emphasis on enforcement and not enough focus on getting fathers involved in their childrens lives. Im pretty sure they target the weak cause they know someone else would find a way out or they know someone in child support an they let them go. You obviously Madea bad choice in men because I know fathers in almost every state in this country would jump at that opportunity if for no other reason than to be with their children more than every other week and a couple of hours on Wednesday in the off week. without any financial help. Taking both of these actions increases the gross amount of child support collected, which then increases the kickbacks that states receive under the CSPIA for collecting child support. nothing with the law is easy. The strange thing is that in all the years I have been reading the enormous (and ever-growing) volume of statutes, rules and cases on child support/maintenance, never have I found anything that says that fathers should be treated less fairly than mothers. (Parent Alienation). So technically daycare is not a need when you can use a private party. Things dont always go the way we want them to. The system, all of it, is corrupt from the lowest peon to the highest rank on the food chain. I did go back to file for child support, but at this point, I know Im wasting my time. There are no outlets, besides grassroot organizations for single fathers to reach when dealing with child support cases. FYI I am a man of anyone was assuming I am a heartless woman. Saying that I still think the system is broken and outdated. 4. Sounds like she works her butt off to give these kids a great life. The matching dollars was supposed to help States pay for tracking down dead beat dads, but now every dad that gets a divorce is a dead beat. Hes tried to run over my kids and myself more than once. They pretty much dont care. Way to go legal system. One problem that is not stated as explicitly as it should be is the way that current child support laws serve as a barrier to true shared parenting. Not a chance as they will say Im fully capable of making the money I once did! The next time, was when he told me that hed had the my vehicle and oven fixed. I continue to email my legislators asking them to make child support a shared responsibility instead of requiring the non-custodial parent to provide a government mandated lifestyle for the children (and by inference, the custodial parent) but the legislators are terrified of being seen as soft on deadbeat parents. My ex wife was ordered to pay $55/wk, but is now $60G behind because shes never been enforced to pay. You sound like a mom that may has a deadbeat dad, envolved. Under the current child support "guidelines" the following factors are RARELY considered by a judge when he or she sets a child support amount: The amount of time each parent has physical custody of the child. Yes folks, this man will not even come out of pocket for his own childrens birthdays or holidays. Do you know that this man made sure that every time he went into a room, he was in front of one of those units? Too many single mothers, feminist organizations, law firms, and state funding to be made. There should be no wealth transfer! But, the outcome does depend on the circumstances, such as: Their income. regardless of which parent is custodial both have to pay for clothing, beds, groceries, healthcare, other insurances, school incidentals. Hes case is real to him just as your case is just as real to you. Why would the mother stick around? All the data points towards it. These are just some things that need attention. 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