I have osteoarthritis in my lower back and scoliosis to the point where I am most likely going to need spine surgery. I have rheumatoid arthritis in the one hand I have, and I know its spreading. 48. . I dont feel bad about it and the statute of limitations is expired anyway. Normally people on the floats throw the good beads to kids or women that will flash them. You spend all of your time together, and share pretty much everything from clothes and favorite movies to taste in food and music. Log in. And it'd be her fault. Wrote a note saying mow the lawn then just ran lawnmowers in the garage with the doors closed till he died of gas poisoning. But they aren't necessarily interested in a long-term relationship and/or feeling obliged to keep our secrets. I dont want my husband to turn into a care giver. Whats your deep, dark secret? I got really lucky is all. There's something so morbidly satisfying about confessional horror stories from real people on the internet. Not my gf now, but she didnt know the extent or details of my childhood struggles. I feel this unholy fear either to fix it to make the anger go away or run and hide. These 17 people have some dark ones, though, but theyre ready to anonymously confess to Reddit! I told my mom that I got an academic scholarship and thats where I got the money for the groceries. ", "Sometimes I buy a chocolate bar when I go to the grocery store and eat it before i get home", "Not that dark, but I really really did not like her wedding dress". Some of these secrets are very dark, some are funny and some we wish we wouldn't have wanted to know about. Every year hes on a float throwing beads.My husband has never been to Mardi Gras so his first time he was so excited and it was at my dads parade. If it rivals any of these, wed love to hear about it in the comments! Toilets, quilting, and tainted Jell-O are just a few of the absurd skeletons people are hiding. Tweet. I think she lost 50-100 grand. From things so embarrassing that one can only hope no one witnessed, to things so dark that they might change our perspective on humanity as a whole, a deep dark secret can really be quite a dramatic thing to learn. My SO is super sweet and supportive, but I am afraid of unloading too much of my crazy on him. She's my ex now, but, she had just revealed to me some very, uh, confidential information, info I understand I'm one of only four people to know. A week later he messaged her and told her that he failed his suicide attempt because his older brother (me.) Healing after addiction takes a long time, but it's a valuable gift to yourself. ", "Didnt have the heart to tell him that I told my dad to do that. Once you know you're hardcore crushing, you need to let your BFF know ASAP. Researchers found that participants had been told an average of 7.65 secrets, and that compassion and assertiveness were the strongest predictors of being entrusted with difficult information. I work long contacts in isolation far away from home and I use a lot when I'm away. The store had these barcodes they would stick on things to mark them down if they were expired. Fight boredom with iPhones and iPads here. She knows I was into drugs and some other dumb stuff, but she doesn't know the depths of depravity I delved to in order to fit in with the people I mistakenly wasted my time with.". Summer camp, I was 13/14 years old. I can't ruin that for him. but that living situation has taken a toll on me in various ways thatd i love to expound upon for those who are interested. She has celiac and can't have gluten. In hindsight, I've been r***d by my first boyfriend. I heard her telling me how much she loved me and that I was such a fighter and to keep fighting. She was devastated, and freaking out. She asked me if I have any deep secrets like that. When i had finally had sex, it honestly was a bit disappointing since i was expecting so much & it was just sex. 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", "Not my gf now, but she didnt know the extent or details of my childhood struggles. He bought coke and pills from other guys living on my hall for a party he was going to, and honestly I was impressed with him for being so well-versed in the buying of drugs and charismatic with my dorm mates. Sometimes we feel a desire to "unburden ourselves" to someone we just started dating. Literally everyone. When you get angry, it triggers the same response to someone in her past that pointed their anger towards her. By submitting email you agree to get Bored Panda newsletter. I dont have anyone in my life that I can trust to talk to about this so I appreciate everyones responses. 1. Even now we're hardly apart since we both work from home.She doesn't know just how sad I get when she goes away. to photography. No one knows this. Peter Pan Syndrome is traditionallythought of as a situation in which a grown man is childish and immature, despite his age. Every year hes on a float throwing beads. Wtf? I don't love my husband any less because he find men attractive to. Cave law number 2: your cave must not be used for anything weird. ", "Exactly how bad of a person I used to be before I met her. Walked in on some other disturbing moments between them here and there but never caught them having sex again after the first time. My mom couldnt afford to feed us in the summer without the school lunches, but she made slightly too much to qualify for food stamps. I'm an iv drug user on and off. according to other people still working there, she threw an ugly crying tantrum the day she opened the package and was coddled by upper management. That I'm dying faster than she thinks I am. We had never actually spoken until that point. Hope he's changed. She doesn't know just how sad I get when she goes away. Get the latest inspiring stories via our awesome iOS app! 01 Your Current Crush Giphy This is always a fun secret you naturally have to tell your BFF. Watching true crime documentaries and listening to true crime podcasts are enough to convince me that we never really know everything about anyone. ", "I'm not sure I actually love him, or if I just don't want to be alone or start a new relationship from scratch. I had to be put on a vent for three weeks, put into a medical coma, resuscitated a couple of times and was pretty close to death for those entire three weeks. Sarah and I saw each other soon after my mom passed, and she broke down and told me that based on their recent encounter, she was sure my mom hated her. I liked him and had no intention of ending our friendship and continually reassured him as much. 2. Got someone pregnant in highschool, gave up custody so I wouldn't have to pay child support. Your feelings for significant others have flattened as you disengaged to avoid telling the truth. People are dumb when they are young, I was dumb enough to feel I had to lie in the first place. Years ago, I got a summer job at a grocery store. My sister in law made peanut butter cupcakes with real peanut butter filling AND filled it with Reese's Peanut Butter chips. deep underground. work from home all this time and my performance has improved / Ive been promoted with $6 / hr raise AND my secret..? I lied to her and said no, she was just really sick at the end, She didnt hate you. Sarah and I are still good friends to this day and I will never tell her the truth that my mom hated her guts. Community Contributor. and i never bothered to share those details because i never wanted to make a sob story out of a situation that i was blessed to get out of and that many people are still currently in. I'm trying to quit the drugs, it's easy when I'm home but as soon as I'm alone in this stupid little hole in the wall for work 4 weeks at a time I'm back to using. Neighbor ran over and helped my mom when she got home from work thankfully as he was the local sheriff so when all the police arrived he took care of the talking and said the door was up. I clean up when I'm going home so my wife can't tell but I'm still not quite 100% when I'm home with her.She's struggling with stuff and it breaks my heart I can't meet her needs but I need this job to pay for our future. Secrets that terrible appear to threaten our very being the. I keep dark thoughts and feelings from him all the time, I'd make him miserable if I didn't.He knows, btw, I am not keeping all of it from him, just a lot of the excessive stuff. "You wouldn't do it, right? My husband told her that I was allergic to Benadryl (I'm not, I'm allergic to the pink dye) and she spun a story of antihistamines giving her necrosis. I write in a journal something I started a few months ago. They were making out and he was fingering her. Get the best of Bored Panda in your inbox. The Bored Panda iOS app is live! Give the gift of knowledge with our official 'did you know' book. Woman Shows How "Harry Potter" Characters Were Supposed To Look According To Book Descriptions (35 Pics), 30 Y.O. Please enter your email to complete registration. Here are five tips for getting to the other side stronger than ever: Decide whether disclosure is truly necessary. Uber drivers witness a lot of awful things. His grandmother is a manipulative narcissist. Thank you for taking the time to share your feedback with us! mysterious . 3. Some things are too cruel to do, even when you're trying to hurt each other. Finally, make sure that interaction is 2-sided. Do you like the taste of blood? So ya I'm like a goldmine of information. My wife only put a tiny bit of peanut butter topping on hers with no PB filling. Tell her, and leave her, so she can hopefully find someone to spend the rest of her life with that actually loves and is attracted to her (and for you too, for that matter). She can be super helpful by playing your wing woman with no judgments attached. Behind the closeness though, there are still a few situations that you . The man who can keep a secret may be wise, but he is . We have the right to privacy in any relationship, including with our spouse, partner, and family. Furthermore, contrary to what people imagined in study one, politeness and enthusiasm predicted the sharing of fewer secrets. From infidelity to hidden pasts, these secrets are su. Politeness may create a barrier to vulnerability, based on our fear of breaking social norms and causing discomfort for someone who tends to value being appropriate, and enthusiasm may breed hesitation to open up to someone who's fun-loving and energetic, but is not serious enough for deeper discussions. Before he left he told me not to tell his mother what he was doing but to tell her he loved her if he died and I thought something was wrong, but I let him go because we had plans for the next day and I figured he had just developed a dark sense of humor in the time since wed last seen each other. My mom hated my ex (lets just call her Sarah) for how bad she hurt me when we broke up. . You don't have to deal with it on your own. I like to spread it out so I can have an enjoyable snack a few days in a row. She also has a will in place and is able to get a death doula to help her through this. In the fourth study, they repeated the third study, but also asked about the size of social networks and found that people with larger social networks, all other factors being equal, had more secrets confided in them. 40 People Reveal The Deep Secrets They've Kept From Their Partners For Years Rokas Laurinaviius and Mindaugas Baliauskas Your romantic partner is typically someone you think you know quite well. Im from south Louisiana and my dad is in a Mardi Gras Crew. My research has shown that the average person keeps around thirteen secrets. Hahaha, this one is the same in my relationship but with the roles reversed. Im 99.9% sure my uncle is not my dad, but my real father hasnt been around since I was very young. My SO is super sweet and supportive, but I am afraid of unloading too much of my crazy on him. The next day everyone thought an animal like a bear or deer had entered the camp and s*%t everywhere. "I have anxiety attacks when my SO is away. more secret. I freakin HATE Dungeons & Dragons.It bores me to tears.Yet I've orchestrates an elaborate lie that gives the illusion I love it as much as he does and once a month I have to spend 5 hours sitting through a session bored to tears.I do this simply because its one of the few hobbies in his life he gets to enjoy and I want him to have someone to play it with.It's been going on for 5 years now, and I have no way out lolIt's OK though, the amount of joy I see he gets from playing it gives me comparable joy. I have rheumatoid arthritis in the one hand I have, and I know its spreading. I knew their back porch door was usually unlocked so I let myself in and quietly went upstairs. That I feel trapped and I hate myself and my life and I really just want to disappear and move away and leave my wife and three kids so they can finally be free of me, I feel like such a burden and so guilty that my kids love me, theyd be better off without me. Share. You don't want to dump all your emotions on a person without being willing to also hear them out.". by randomgoat01. please talk to someone x. Anonymous People Reveal Their Deepest, Darkest Secret Secrets. I work long contacts in isolation far away from home and I use a lot when I'm away. It feels too good to be true. Furthermore, they found that people tend to confide more in others who are neurotic, struggling with their own emotions and conflicts, and in those who are generally more open and intelligent. 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Also remember that ultimately you need acceptance from your partner, so rather than fearing you're going to put them off, prioritize instead finding someone that supports you totally.". You know, the real dreams. He knows, btw, I am not keeping all of it from him, just a lot of the excessive stuff. Literally nobody irl knows. Once a secret is completely out of the bag, however, the information takes on a life of its own sometimes with unpredictable results. Be warned, I had an ex who had what I thought was a boring hobby and indulged joining in with it for years before I finally confessedhe told me that he thought it was my hobby and I enjoyed it and was just putting up with it for me. His mother asked me what happened. How to ruin a perfectly good relationship. , so I let myself in and quietly went upstairs with real peanut butter filling and filled it Reese. And share pretty much everything from clothes and favorite movies to taste in food and.... 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