For those reading this, if you are having suicidal thoughts: call 988 (The Suicide Prevention Helpline). If A Guy Does These 5 Things, He's Trying To Keep You Trapped In A Toxic Relationship, The 6 Most Common Reasons Why We Stay In Toxic Relationships, This Type Of Behavior Is The Quietest, Possibly Most Destructive Of All Relationship Habits, 11 Signs He's An Emotional Sadist And Is Just Playing With Your Heart, What Is Gaslighting? Disgusting! He gave the exact same story without knowing the details of ours. Explaining my situation to her on the phone and hearing what she had to say about my situation really helped me expose this girl for lying about being pregnant just to get back to me( trap me). Next Post , Hi Owen. By this, he has no choice but to impregnate you. If you are being tricked into fatherhood, chances are you are vulnerable to other ways women abuse men,you need my books: Or for a summary of the larger book that is linked above: Previous Post Why doesnt he want you to use control pills if you havent had any complications after usage? He respects your boundaries and makes sure that he doesn't step on them. It may be more than a coincidence that your girlfriend or wife announced she was pregnant right after you broke up with her. He Seems A Little Bit More Mellow Around Babies And Children One of the signs that should tip you off that your man wants to get you pregnant is when he becomes softer around children than he used to be. 1. He's always telling you how much he loves you. This is a serious issue because it can lead to financial and emotional difficulties for both you and your child. When we were together, I took measures to make sure she wouldnt get pregnant.. and afterwards she assured me that I didnt have to because she had an IUD. I never did. I decided to support her and send her money and to keep our relationship for ever. You must have heard people discussing how they've started feeling trapped in the very relationship that made them feel alive earlier. He said when he asked her about being on the pill she said she was taking some antibiotics and it made it less effective. They may fake it until they can make it. After coupe of days she told me that she got a terrible haemorrhage and she had to be admitted in the ICU. It sucks to read all these comments. Trapping a man with a pregnancy and other forms of taking his reproductive rights away is partner sexual abuse. Later on she said she was at work and couldnt answer. Some of them are married now, but its hard to say how that will turn out. You then may think you shouldnda put a ring on it, but its now a much more difficult proposition to get away from her.But then again, lots of real pregnancies end in miscarriage. I am worried about his mental state because he is disappointed that we havent embraced this. He fessed up that we have a big problem and that she is pregnant with his child on June 18. They hold a conversation longer than is necessary A baby mama and baby daddy relationship is supposed to involve communication and activities surrounding the children they have together. She was a compulsive lire, drug addict, schizophrenic, and drank fairly often. You have heard of stories of home violence where a man flogs his girlfriend for talking to other guys. Im going to give you 8 pregnancy trap red flags and tell you how to protect yourself from being trapped by a pregnancy. If you were thinking about breaking up with herthe pregnancy might be a trap. 2. Your seed is necessary for her motherhood but beyond that, you may or may not be relevant to her. Privately, she thinks, Could it have been my mistaken memory? Ignoring me in fact whilst still maintaining shes pregnant but has never down me a positive pregnancy test? My gf of 6 months, whos in her final year studying civil engineering told me on 6th June she wasnt feeling well, I should find a clinic for her to visit. Wow. One time she even told me well meet after work but she never got in touch. RELATED:This Type Of Behavior Is The Quietest, Possibly Most Destructive Of All Relationship Habits. Trap Red Flag #4. They have not even seen a doctor yet. Cuddling up and even wrapping his arm around her waist as they left the bar. Or so I thought. You see, men are naturally protective over the woman they love. Toxic men have many game plans, and some are tricky to spot if you don't know what to look for. Especially points #7 and #8. She said to go there after an hour to meet her. I strongly suspect my mother got pregnant with me to trap my dad so that she would have a better life as the wife of a policeman in another European country (think of the blonde woman in A Officer and a Gentleman). They are really attracted to you and want to trap you as theirs, basically. When he pays you a conjugal visit, he brings up excuses of forgetting to carry a long condom or he says he is going to pull out. I wasnt dumb enough to marry her. Watch to make sure any changes you request happen, and if so, for how long they last. She said its okay But I never heard from her again that evening or the next day. I said I was only checking up on her. There are legitimate reasons for going off of birth control pills. To take advice from people who are not bias on hers or his side . Is he really right and he never did say X or agreed to Y? That was June 28th. Hi Javier. It does sound like you were baby trapped. Shocked and scared (26y/o), I didnt know what to do so I proposed and almost sick to my stomach said I do. With the court system the way it is I couldnt see being a money slave for some hoe I couldnt stand. That's common, and it's meant to keep you on your toes doubting yourself and your own judgment, and spinning as you wonder if it's you who got it wrong or him that made it up. It's a fantasy that sometimes turns to reality. Here's Everything You Need To Know About The Term (And If It Might Be Happening To You). He recently used Tinder while home for a holiday break. You also have the option to opt-out of these cookies. I know he is feeling bad for her story and is too embarrassed of himself to admit that he fell for it. In all of this theres also one other element. After she was out of the hospital she pretended to be weak and always stomach sick as if the pills caused a permanent damage in her. We use cookies on our website to give you the most relevant experience by remembering your preferences and repeat visits. I guess she must have sensed something was off and turned into a bloody psycho. All I want to do is to take action to try and convince her to not go through with the pregnancy, but she makes sure to take the opposite stance of whatever I suggest. In my blog, I have mentioned several signs that he wants to trap you with pregnancy. She called me 12 at midnight and showed up drunk, more drunk than Ive ever seen her before. Only the 3rd man married her, but Im not so sure that will stop her from looking for a 4th man to trap. She ended up going to the clinic close to me but when I asked her if I can escort her to wait with her she said no, they wont let me wait with her. By the way, I'm never having a kid, EVER." Well, it turns out that the reverse situation happens too, that men trap women-but NOBODY seems to talk about that on this sub. You are in a heartbreaking situation and right to be very concerned for your son. This is a valuable and interesting article. Imagine when he realizes that your feelings arent the same; he will make you pregnant to deny everyone access to you. So unless your girlfriend or whoever had tuberculosis, they shouldnt have any problems with antibiotics interfering with BC. Who is willing to have a baby to stay with someone that doesnt even want to be with them anymore? Its so messy I still feel to be involved in the childs life, because the fathers isnt actively involved and the innocent child is in the middle with only a single mother in poverty. Performance cookies are used to understand and analyze the key performance indexes of the website which helps in delivering a better user experience for the visitors. So I proceeded that way, not suspecting that she could be lying. Trap Red Flag #7. He discourages you from using birth control pills. Its absolutely heartbreaking that people want to create a life out of selfishness and not based on a mutually loving, supportive relationship that is going to offer a safe haven for so said child to thrive in. Improvements don't last long with guys who are truly toxic. He hates secrets. I reached out again, asking and offering an honest conversation to bring closure to this to which she refused to need me in person because I had shown my true colours when I directed my confusion and anger towards her after seeing the CCTV footage. He's trying to keep yourself esteem low to keep you trapped in the shitty relationship. To a lazy cow with no character. My funds are already depleted from my previous divorce and struggle getting back to a fraction of the economic status I was before. I know a woman who accidentally got pregnant 3 times, trying to trap 3 different men. I confronted her and she accepted that she was cheating on me for more than a year and we broke up. Not just to become another selfish consumer or opiod addict, etc. If she suddenly isnt pregnant anymorethe pregnancy might have been a trap.A miscarriage may be a cover story for a pregnancy that never was. #1. The pregnancy pulled you back from the brink. Grow some integrity. Later that evening she sent me a picture of a negative pregnancy test with the connotation she has had to do what she has to do. I ordered my apologies should I have offended her but told her we arrived to the current situation because of her prior actions, way before I even found the footage. Because it just too coincidental that she got pregnant right after he said he couldnt talk to her anymore. A friend was married SEVEN TIMES and spent over a million dollars on child support and alimony. She convinced you to go ahead, I cant get pregnant today.. Teagin Maddox is a Certified Life Coach who provides analysis and interpretation of high conflict, destructive relationships in the media, targeting the core issue and identifying the covert toxic dynamics at play, an understanding she gained through personal experience and training in domestic violence advocacy. Not just her fault hes an idiot. It was at this moment that I realised that everything she said to me and was saying to me was fake. I was not trying to tie him down. If she says she went off of her birth control for a reason other than getting pregnant and she suddenly got pregnantthe pregnancy might be a trap. I mean people dont realize what the cost of bringing a life into this world is and the responsibility on many levels that it carries. You will your partner wants to trap you with pregnancy when he comes up with jokes about you two having a family; In this case, a baby. I didnt trust his *gift* and used my own. 3. This trap may be direct or indirect.A direct trap would be that the pregnancy is intended to secure your relationship or financial support.An indirect trap would be that the primary objective is motherhood, youre being trapped into fatherhood may be extraneous to that objective. If he wants to proceed as a couple, he can do that without getting married. The man was all over the lady giving her roses, taking her for dates, and event planning for long-term relationship goals. Anyway- NEGGING, reminding you of all his 'options' and mentioning other girls for no reason. He also believed hes doing "the right thing " because shes having a difficult pregnancy. So Ive lost this person. It is important to note that any man who feels his position is at threat will make an effort to trap you by making you pregnant. It is strange how men also trap ladies by impregnating them. His retirement plans destroyed. One of the most subtle signs of him wanting to have a baby is involving himself with your family. If he initiates sex more often during your ovulation period, that's another sign he wants to get you pregnant. When you start paying attention to the patterns of change in a relationship, as well as to the way you respond to those changes that don't stick, you can begin assessing the situation more accurately and determine if the man you're involved with is trying to keep you trapped and under his control. Trash. So he wanted to trap me, have a kid and get married. Thank you for putting this together. He will start showing you photos of cute babies or making you aware that his friend is pregnant. Wake up and be cautious not to fall into regrets. Our website services, content and products are not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Each red flag is intended to get your attention and help you pause to consider the possibilities. She hijacked and altered the course of my entire life. She was some chick he constantly turned down but ended up hooking up with 1 night. One of the main signs that your man wants to get you pregnant is when he gets excited around children. But, when a woman is pregnant, the motivation to dress up or even change into fresh clothes somewhat disappears. (She had retrieved the condom out of the garbage can!). Other times, women use pregnancy to trap their man or his money. Just remember you reap what you sow. 3. Trapped is a highly anxiety-provoking feeling. Necessary cookies are absolutely essential for the website to function properly. No matter what he decides, try to keep a relationship with him. The fertilised egg was in a wrong position and if the pregnancy continues it could be dangerous for the mum. I put up with her crap because I know how fathers are treated in our sorry ass court system. Like, Ha Ha Bitch, youre stuck now! June 18th. It sounds like you are feeling both anxious and depressed. He called himself giving me "free" birth control pills. Does this person sound crazy enough to have a child out of spite? You might also find this video interesting, eye-opening and/or confirming. The cookie is used to store the user consent for the cookies in the category "Other. 20. This is a loud sign girl. She is the oldest of a large group of kids. How can you tell whether an accidental pregnancy is a trap or legit? This red flag could be in play even if she presents herself as disappointed that she is pregnant. Im glad shes dead. It sounds like youve been through a lot, but luckily discovered the truth and have been able to get away from the manipulator and go on to have happiness in a healthy relationship. Signs a woman wants to trap a man with a baby: 1. Things to avoid in a relationship are assuming off the cuff that you're in love when it could very well just be a strong case of "like.". Let her go. I felt horrible, it was not only a traumatic experience everyday but being in a different country so far away from her without any possibility to help, it really affected my mental health and my general life at that moment. Their inconsistent behavior creates a silent uncertainty in the partner's mind, causing the partner to stay put and try harder to make things work, and that is exactly what toxic men rely on. Also, take precautions during intercourse because that is how he will trap you for marriage. When young women wouldnt even talk to me, but when I got older, with house, business and aircraft and was traveling around the world I was the hottest thing around. -Ann. A pregnancy may be accidental-on-purpose. A few more days went by, no word from her until the early hours of 18th June when I got a missed video call at 2:15am from her. Pressure to Move In Quickly One sign that your partner may be trying to trap you is if they're pressuring you to move in together quickly. I just know how this movie ends! A bright light in your story is that it sounds like the kids saw reality and you have a strong relationship with them. 24) He respects your boundaries. Im sorry that you got trapped by this sick woman but glad that I was able to provide you with a forum for getting to share your story. Ive started over several times in my life. You might not have actually made the declaration that you were breaking up out loud yet but she was getting the break-up vibe from you. Why would he make jokes about baby fever when he is not ready to settle? Your story now has the chance of helping others. I told her Id give myself closure since it seemed she had moved on Which is the only point she responded to, saying that she hadnt moved on and she wasnt dating anyone else. after a long conversation. She sold a car on Saturday and bought a horse on Sunday. Here are 12 signs that a man is desperate to get married: 1) He Does Everything You Say You've never been in a relationship with a man who was so agreeable, have you? He was free to choose whatever he wanted. That way she would already be getting used to me not being around. He discourages you from using birth control pills, 7. Later on they were joined by two other guys and she was very touchy with one of them. He would say he was going to wear a condom and poke holes or rip through it with his thing or just remove it. All the stories fell apart when I called the guy who she was cheating on me. This is especially concerning if the two of you have only been dating for a short period of time, or if they suggest moving in without discussing it first. Some of the red flags you might see include his working excessive overtime or spending too much time at the office, her being vague about where she's been or will be, his or her dependence on alcohol or drugs, his asking you for money, her lack of boundaries with her family, his siding the with guys over you, her blaming everyone but herself for Wanting to not use protection and get you pregnant, with no ring. Sometimes the best-laid plans run amuck and create offspring. She was such a horrible person that we didnt even go to the funeral. Meanwhile when I called her at work she couldnt talk. I supported where I could, got a patternity test and am not. Thanks for sharing your story Ozoz. How could she she just graduated high school. I didnt believe it so I said lets meet in person and discuss. You are right. After all, these are the days, you are so hyper and you will never go for a no as an answer. My brother was trapped by his girlfriend that he was planning on leaving. June 7 shes pregnant. As funny as this sounds it is a real sign that he wants to trap you with pregnancy. It sure looks like the womans story fits as a fake pregnancy trap: (1) announcing she was pregnant after the break-up (2) the dates not adding up (3) the miscarriage. Theres no point in trying to get her to admit it. It may be more than a coincidence that your girlfriend or wife announced she was pregnant right after you broke up with her. I never asked her if she fake the pregnancy or the abortion, but I can assume she did. The doctor prescribed her some abortive pills and she took them. He wants to do the honorable thing. Youve made it clear you dont want kids now. I still havent made a decision. Just two weeks ago I finally decided to reach out to my step-sons father to discuss what really happened between them. had this happen to me, I asked "where do you want it" she said "in me" and I just said "Nah" and backed out at the last second. Again, it's a total mind game these warped guys are very good at playing. Anxiety Worksheets, Books, and Recordings by Ann Silvers, 7 Diet Tips for Mental Health and Wellbeing, 101 Emotion Words List: Expand Your Emotion Vocabulary, Depression in Men: It Happens More Than You Think. Stuart: Sorry to hear the pain that you are carrying. Your partner keeps track of your ovulation days and wants to have sex with you on these days. First of all, this is a highly spoiled and over indulged way of behaving. Also, another red flag when she says, Im a devout Catholic!, nothing against Catholics, but that should tell you that although she cant keep her legs shut (which is a sin to Catholics, too), shes not about start using birth control because thats also supposedly a sin..smh. Normally, your boyfriend should be kind to babies and find them cute. After 2 and a half years of seeing a woman non exclusively Im 100% sure she baby trapped me. Something eventually has to happen. There is only so much time to run with a false pregnancy story. I felt guilty cause I did finish inside her but the more time passes my initial intuition is 100% this was planned by her. Men please be careful out there for your own sake. He plays mind games and tries to trap you with tricky, unnecessary questions. I wish the lady knew soon enough about the mans plans and thought of a different approach but now it is a bit late for her. I stuck with it and put up with shit for 18 years. I feel sorry for trapped daddy #2 and #3, but it seems like they could have used common sense to not get trapped like the 1st daddy. -joking about getting you pregnant. Because hes now running to her? not to shame him, but to open his eyes that not all but some woman will do this. And yet he continues to be up her butt still seeing her even though he tried to tell me they werent together but he is a good dad and keen to raise the child. I had kept her pain meds locked up and had to give her the doses. We explained that she could leave you, take half and laugh. I told her I was now becoming very suspect of her behaviour and the possibility that she doesnt have a baby at all. I want to start a family but only with the right person and at the right time, both criteria have not been satisfied. Each attempt lets her hone her skills until she finally snares a guy. When you are not having the same feelings as your partner this topic is so sensitive and to some it is irritating. Kat Cook: Thanks for adding these stories of a woman using the pregnancy trap multiple times. So that night I never brought up the pregnancy conversation. I was dating her for about 2 years before I went off to Marine Boot Camp. and now Sept 22 she tells him that she lost the baby. No thank you. There will be many cyclical arguments during which he twists what you've said and hyperfocuses on isolated words in your discussion, argument, or point, harping on them out of context, and perhaps even weeks later. I wanted kids but couldnt stand the women. If youve found the perfect woman in a surprisingly short period of time, find out whether she just lost a relationship that was paying all of her bills for her. I went there after an hour and half and it was closed and I received a message saying shes home already. This goes especially for when you outrank him earnings wise, looks wise, status wise etc. He never forgets important dates or events in your life. PLEASE HELP?!!? I will ask you one question about this. He insists on calling the shots and deciding how and when communication. Eventually, the lie is going to catch up with her. -Ann. Move on. Signs He Wants to Trap You With Pregnancy . If you notice these strategies or a pattern of incomplete follow-through, start watching to see if there's a lot of word play going on or if you feel he's being secretive. He probably figures if he gets you pregnant you will be baby trapped with him. I hope that you can find your way to a happy life. Let me start my blog with a story of a young lady I know who was in a relationship with her work colleague. We tried to tell him and explain to him girls do not meet a guy, have unprotected sexon day 1 . We had built trust between each other so eventhough when she insisted to finish inside was so strange at the moment I stopped and asked her if she was sure. I didnt love her and she had multiple issues I couldnt deal with anymore. the facts my Husband brought the stupid woman to a hotel with in walking distance of the house, I confronted her and told her that he was my husband. I just dont know what to do anymore or what to do, In response to Bruce: I hope others read your story and protect themselves from what you are experiencing. However, the most common reason for going off of birth control pills or getting an IUD removed isdrum roll pleaseto get pregnant. Your opinion will be appreciated. This website uses cookies to improve your experience while you navigate through the website. 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